its tiong actual birthday..
went out for dinner to so call celebrate his birthday with aaron at somewhere around eunos for "zi cha"..never been there before..their signature dish is "yiow ji mee sua" but we never order that..the food there's like home cook dishes..we ordered brocolli(my fav)..pai gu wang..minced meat tofu and zhu cha tang..but we're still not very full yet..portion quite small..so in the end we end up ordering another mixed meat mee sua..to filled the next 1/4 of our stomach..hee..left at around 9 to serangoon garden..what else can we do there?? DRINK LO!!
they had erdinger while i drank camomile..so we sat down and talked about life again..tiong asked a question which made us silent and couldnt even answer..the question goes like this.." who is the most important person in your life.." can only name one.. "the one u will never forsake in your whole life.." if you say is parents..is either mother or father..he insist on us choosing just one..we just couldnt answer..so we skipped this question..
" if you think your friend/gf is the most important person in your life..think twice..lets say if you need a 500 bucks urgently and ask them for help..will they lend you..?? they will find tonnes of excuses to say no to you..they might even dump you if you face any trouble..in the end..who will be the one lending you this 500 bucks..who will be the one helping you?? although they will scold, nagged at you..but they will never leave u in the lurch..parents are always the most important people in your life..they give birth to you..nourish you..give the best they can to you..nobody can replace them..
another thing..its about guys..he said..no matter what you do..there's a string attach to it..say..you wanna have a r/s..you must have money..if you wanna "make love" you must be sensible enough to wear a condom..if you dont..make sure if anything goes wrong you will bear all the responsiblities/consequences..dont because of that few minutes of "shiokness" and ruins a girl life..generally..guys wants sex because of lust..but girls usually have sex because of love..
actually he said alot of stuff which i quite agree that night..
while on our way back..baby suddenly asked me.."do you think i will betray you..? i didnt reply him..of coz i hope he will never do anything to betray me or behind my back..but it takes 2 hands to clap..me myself have to do my part as his wife..so i wont blame him if i fail to do so..BUT..of coz i want my marriage to be a blissful 1..i will try my best to give him the best i can..to be the best wife and mother for our family..hope our marriage will be able to stay strong and last till our very last breathe..
~**136days to our big day**~
